Services provided

* COUPLES THERAPY * INDIVIDUAL THERAPY * HYPNOTHERAPY * PREMARITAL THERAPY * "JOURNEY" PACKAGES * COUPLES INTENSIVES


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SPECIALIZATIONS:


  Marital/Couple (Communication, Sex, Infidelity, Intimacy)


Couples 3.25hr Intensives (Intimacy or Couples-in-Crisis) 



Premarital Therapy


"Journey" packages (4 -12 week duration)


Conflict Resolution/Communication Tools


Inner-child Healing 

Shadow work and Self-love


Creating healthy relationships 


Work and Career Support
Stress Management - Performance Anxiety (actors, athletes, musicians, etc,) 


 Anxiety (Work, Relationships, Social, Financial, Intimacy, etc.)


Mindfulness, Meditation, and Energy Work (Reiki)


Sacred connections/unions



COUPLES THERAPY

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Couples Top Reasons for Seeking Therapy:

  • Communication 
  • High conflict/low conflict resolution skills (frequent arguments)
  • Infidelity/rebuilding trust
  • Lack of intimacy/disconnection
  • Infertility and IVF process
  • Resentment or contempt
  • In-laws and friends
  • Contemplating Divorce/Separation
  • Co-parenting misalignment


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I am passionate about relationships and treat the couple as the client. I set a tone of safety and respect and create an environment where both partners feel heard, validated, seen, and understood. An environment free from secrets and blame, where both partners learn new, more effective ways to communicate and have an opportunity to heal, rediscover each other, and achieve fulfillment in their relationship. 


As a licensed Marriage and Family therapist, I utilize elements of Family Systems Theory, Narrative Family Therapy, Mindfulness, Attachment Theory, the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Somatic practices, and the work of Esther Perel when working with couples. 


Couples therapy begins with a thorough assessment of the relationship and a check in with each individual partner during the first couples session. We discuss the expectations they each had when entering the couple relationship, how they show and recognize love, and how they view the current state of their relationship. I offer an optional on-line assessment through Prepare/Enrich, which generates a couples report that we can reference during sessions. 


The beauty of couples therapy is having a neutral, experienced relationship therapist help support you with talking through challenging conversations with love and warmth and creating the relationship you seek. You will be given the tools to make having a healthy and connected relationship a reality!


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JOURNEY PACKAGES FOR COUPLES 

"Couples-in-Crisis" Intensive:

 This focused, 3.25-hour intensive is designed to support couples in times of crisis. The purpose is to create an emotionally safe space where couples can speak without interruption, practice a mindfulness technique for self-emotional regulation, be given tools to support them with de-escalating during conflict, and create a plan for next steps. Couples-in-Crisis intensives are for moments in the relationship when couples are met with a betrayal, a diagnosis, a major life event/trauma, or major life decision that they are having a challenging time discussing due to high emotion, conflict, or stonewalling. Due to the nature of this intensive, sessions are usually held in-person or virtually within 48hr - 72hrs of first outreach.

  


"Couples Intimacy" Intensive:

 This focused, 3.25-hour intensive is designed to support couples who are eager to experience deeper and/or more frequent intimate moments and are struggling with where to begin. This intensive encourages vulnerability through communication around what the barriers are to intimacy, as well as each partners wants, needs, and desires. Couples will have an opportunity to eye gaze, do a shared mindfulness practice, and hold hands as they connect deeply around their hopes and desires for their relationship moving forward. This intensive makes a great anniversary gift or date night!

"Couples Revamp Journey" package (8, 12, or 16 sessions):

 Together we tailor a therapeutic approach to support you with creating the relationship dynamic you seek. We identify areas of focus, couples take the Prepare/Enrich online assessment, and gain extensive knowledge of their love languages, attachment styles, and marital expectations. Through the use of various modalities, we take an integrative approach to identifying the best tools to support them with navigating their differences and building intimacy. The Revamp Journey allows for couples to learn a great deal about themselves as well as their partner during the process! 



"Premarital Journey" package (4, 6 or 8 sessions):

 Sessions are 75 minutes and couples select areas of concentration based on their needs. The couples will complete an the Prepare/Enrich online assessment individually, which will generate a couple’s report. Some couples prefer to focus on one or two topics, while others opt to touch base around all the topics identified on their Prepare/Enrich couples report. The package is customized to the couple’s needs, is meant to be positive, fun, and strength-focused as the couple prepares for their big day and future life together. Couples receive a certificate of completion as a keepsake! See the Premarital Therapy page for more detals! The Premarital Journey package makes a fantastic gift for a newly engaged couple! 





INDIVIDUAL THERAPY 


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Individuals Top Reasons for Seeking Therapy:

  • Recent Breakup/Divorce
  • Desire for increase self-awareness/self-actualization
  • Dating (How to date, feeling ready to date, becoming emotionally available)
  • Anxiety (Related to work, related to relationships, social phobia)
  • Performance Anxiety (actors, performers, etc.)
  • Depression 
  • Fear (of death, change, etc.)
  • Self-limiting beliefs
  • Adjustment/Life transition (transitions/change at work, with health)
  • Low Self-Esteem
  • Childhood Trauma
  • Guilt


Oftentimes, individuals seek therapy after numerous failed relationships or fear of entering into a new relationship. I work with individual clients to address past romantic as well as past familial relationships which are hindering them from progressing in new relationships.

Breakups/Divorce are a leading cause of individuals who seek therapy. The loss of a relationship can be traumatizing and being able to process the emotions that are linked to the past relationship can help lead clients to developing/creating healthier relationships moving forward.

Whether a native to New York City, or adjusting to the transition of relocating, many people in NYC are driven, high achievers who at times feel the weight of the high expectations imposed on them by others, as well as the high standards they hold for themselves which can lead to symptoms of anxiety and depression. As individuals strive to achieve their goals, they sometimes go prolonged periods of time without checking in with themselves. They are moving so quickly that when they do stop and are present, they struggle to feel connected to the life they have created.

When the creation of goals is rooted in the expectations of others, it can lead to depression, discontentment, and stagnation. What are your goals? What are your desires? What brings you joy?

When we forget to exist in the present moment, we can exist on auto-pilot and struggle to connect with others, can feel detached from people we care about, and it is happening because we are struggling to connect with our own humanity and inner knowing.

Negative self-talk, imposter syndrome, lack of purpose, grief and loss, fear, regret, anxiety, disappointment in ourselves and/or humanity, ALL REQUIRE HEALING! 



Giving yourself permission to heal requires courage. Full healing requires self-love. Remember...You are allowed to change. You are allowed to grow. I will support you with experiencing yourself in your FULL, authentic expression - Tamara Thompson, LMFT


Our work together will focus on identifying what you need to heal, who you are at your core, and what you want to create! Whether you would like weekly or bi-weekly sessions, monthly 3-hour check-ins, or the "Journey" package (listed below), together we will find the process that works best for you!


"JOURNEY" PACKAGES FOR INDIVIDUALS

My Individual Self-Love Journey” package Hypnotherapy/Psychotherapy (6, 8, or 12 sessions): Together we create a package that is tailored to your needs and desires. You will have an opportunity to select one of three tracks that best fits your needs at this time: 

1) Healing Track.

2) Self-Awareness Track.

3) Self-Actualization Track


All packages above include one hypnotherapy session with at least two age regressions. We explore blockages, self-limiting beliefs, inner-child, shadow work, attachment style, love languages, and self-love. REIKI add-on also available with hypnotherapy session.

"After The Breakup: A Self-Love Journey” (12 or 16 sessions): Breakups can be devasting and traumatic. Sometimes individuals appreciate weekly, indefinite sessions that allow them to go at their own pace. This package focuses on us working together as you complete exercises from "After The Breakup: A Self-Love Workbook," by Tamara Thompson, LMFT.  While "healing" and "being ready," is unique to each person and each experience, this journey package gives you an opportunity to work one-on-one with me, as we work through the thoughts and emotions that come up for you when completing the exercises.


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I challenge my clients to slow down, assess where they are now, in this present moment, and develop goals aligned with who they are at their core.  

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I provide therapeutic services for individuals and couples from diverse cultural backgrounds and with various sexual orientations. Through thorough assessment, discussion, goal setting and implementation, many of my clients have decreased their anxiety, elevated their mood and have become more productive at home, at work, and in life.

Couples have increased intimacy, developed healthier communication styles and have found the happiness they sought. All interventions are developmentally appropriate and individualized through a collaborative effort between the therapist and client to achieve the goal they desire.

All packages include one hypnotherapy session with at least one age regression. We explore blockages, self-limiting beliefs, inner-child, shadow work, attachment style, love languages, and self-love. REIKI add-on also available with hypnotherapy session.




My goal is to support you with healing and creating the life and relationship you desire.
The journey is yours and therapy belongs to you.
Your life, your story, your Journey!

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